Written by Olabisi David
written for REGEN
STILL ON THE NAOMI CHALLENGE
(Check previous post “HERE” to understand better)
Here’s a Sister’s experience belowπ
My MIL feels I’m lazy because I put to bed through CS, and when she came to take care of me she kept on emphasizing that she has never been to hospital let alone cs for child birth, but I have to ask her nicely that was any of her babies 4.5kg at birth? My husband had to explain my ordeal to her, before she calm down a little
My Comment: The reason for sharing these stories is to help us do better. At least we can learn what not to do and what we should try to do. In this particular case, I’m happy to read that the husband was available to clarify certain things. A new mother is just coming out of a peculiar situation and irrespective of her mode of delivery, she should never be made to feel lazy and there’s no room for comparison from anyone, even outsiders. Same goes for pregnant women. That you were strong all through your pregnancy is by God’s grace. Do not shame those who didn’t have it easy. May the Lord help us to be among the new generation of mother-in-love and not mother-in-law that the Lord is raising at this time. Amen
Keep sharing your in-law stories, let’s learn. I have some sweet stories tooπ₯°
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